๐ค **How to Connect with Anyone** **Accept people as they are** ๐ ๐คAccepting someone means not judging them. Feel the difference between "acceptance" and "praise" โ they are different things. Praise is always nice, but it's based on a system of evaluation. And what you praise today, you might criticize tomorrow. In acceptance, you allow another person to express their individuality. Acceptance means creating an atmosphere where a person can be themselves and not worry about being judged by you (whether the judgment is good or bad). Acceptance fosters deep, trusting relationships that last a lifetime. **Keep categorization to a minimum** ๐ผ ๐ People tend to see things in black and white. It helps them navigate space and make decisions without self-doubt. But there's a difference between making independent, responsible choices and wanting to label everything and everyone as "bad" or "good." A categorical judgment won't yield the desired result if you want someone to open up to you. ๐ค** Unite with others in a positive way.** ๐ฅ Coming together based on a positive trait is a powerful tool for building strong friendships and partnerships. For example, "We were chosen to work on this project together for a reason. You and I are strong professionals, and together, we'll create an amazing product." This is an example of uniting based on a positive trait. ๐ซ** Never criticize what someone identifies with. **๐ โโ๏ธ Under no circumstances should you judge someone else's children, spouse, parents, or beloved pet. What people are deeply attached to is not just valuable to them; it's a part of who they are, their identity. This rule is especially important when someone complains about their spouse or how poorly their child is doing in school. #Psychology @Motivation